Most swingers have a story about just such an occurrence.
It usually goes something like this: "My wife and I go to swinger's parties often and one party we went to was great -- until our neighbor and his wife walked in.
You probably see a swinger everyday, only you don't see them.
Just as it has become more socially acceptable to be gay or lesbian, sexual attitudes toward bisexuals and partner swapping are also changing.
The taboo that society places on everything it categorizes as "out of the norm" has kept both homosexuals and swingers in the closet. Perhaps in a few years, it will be the "in thing" to be a swinger.
Additionally, Life Style clubs are evolving, becoming more elegant and attracting a broader range of people.
Frequently, people in the Life Style attend a party or club and run into someone they know from work or some other social activity.
I was shocked and concerned that the whole neighborhood would find out.
After I got over the initial shock, I realized that my neighbor was thinking the same thing.
The sexually free are found in every community, and within every demographic.
The Life Style is growing and reaching new levels all the time.
In the past it was quite difficult and time consuming to meet like-minded people using the magazines gleaned from the adult bookstores and that made it easy to give up.