After Cowans and Wright broke up and she was in California, he says he got a breaking news alert.He texted her and then they spoke on the phone about police in Memphis finding the gun that killed Lorenzen.But somewhere in between the passing of a decade, something changed. I became independent, confident, and started to value my self-worth. Now, this has nothing to do with the actual age of a person.
"And it was always, 'I wish he was here to see this," he recalled.
"She often would pray three or four hours into the night laying in our master closet, pillow, cover, just praying," Cowans said.
"After a long length of time, I was like, 'Okay Sherra, we've got to go,' Cowans said. 'We've got to get back to Houston.' She was like, 'Okay," and she left and I just waved at the guy." He said she didn't like when Lorenzen's dad got about $215,000 from Lorenzen's NBA money.
Cowans said he wanted Sherra to focus on the relationship they were building, but he says she was fixated on the money saying that she wanted to go to court for it. "It's like she didn't want Herb (Lorenzen's father) to have it. I was looking at our picture and what we were trying to do.
When I was in my early twenties, if a guy acted aloof, called back only sometimes and showed minimal interest, I would get hooked.
You could say I was addicted to the bad boy/ unavailable boy/ player.
Now, a lot of these differences require taking the time to know someone to figure out if the apple of your eye is indeed a man, or a mere boy. *To clarify, when I’m referring to “games” I mean mind games.
However, one of the quickest filters that you can notice from the beginning is this: 11.
Cowans said writing the book served as a form of therapy, after he says he went through the five stages of grief following his 2017 break-up with Sherra.