I go down on her pretty much every time we have sex. It's always been voluntary, although I wouldn't be offended if a woman asked. Have you ever gotten feedback from a woman you went down on? Man A: The positive feedback has ranged from vocal ("That was incredible!
A few partners felt like they were being pressured into having an orgasm because I was being quite persistent, but it's hard for a guy to know with a new partner how much stimulation a women needs and how much is too much, or if it's just not going to happen. Other times, it'll be toward the end of sex, as a different way of helping her climax, as it's something that makes her come deep and long. I'm also proud of how my skill in it has grown — she'd been with a lot of guys before me but says I'm hands down the best at going down on her.
I wouldn't be upset if someone ruffled my hair and asked me to stop. Man A: It's always a great way to start things off, getting her down on the bed and pulling her clothes off and sticking my face down in there. Occasionally, it's a useful way to take a (physical) break from sex, without losing the mood, although I tend to feel that once you've started to give oral sex, you ought to give your partner the chance to reach a climax if they want to. And actually it sounds like a lot of guys would give shitty excuses to not do cunnilingus, like, "No, it smells down there," or, "No, it's dirty," even when they expected blow jobs.
Man A: I find vaginas aesthetically fascinating, but you rarely get a chance to really look at them up close. The taste can be very tangy, especially if the woman is really getting aroused and more juices come out.
Then there's the matter of isolating the clit with your tongue — you can't actually see it when your mouth is on top of it, so you have to really develop a tactile understanding of the terrain and be attuned to how focusing your energy yields different results. I love the way it feels, I have a hard time describing it because I can't think of anything to relate it to.
Man B: I've been with women of multiple races and different shapes; I think they're all great and beautiful in their own way.
Being shaved used to be a big turn-on for me, but it doesn't matter to me anymore.
Don't be surprised — or rude — when she hasn't heard the latest from Beyoncé or seen any movies.
Glazed old-fashioned might be the closest thing to a Bloody Mary you both can get. Speaking of Bloody Marys, hangovers aren't an option anymore. Say good-bye to after-parties, say hello to more-time-for sex (Lock the door!
Man C: Over the years, I have seen all kinds of vaginas, and if I am being honest, I don't really have an opinion.