And if I did get a date, it always ended up as "friends" at the end, because I was such a "Nice Guy." But I'd also look at my guy friends who had cool girlfriends and think, "He's not all that great looking, or all that smart." I asked myself that over and over again.I started to get really frustrated, and then I even got angry with women over it.Well, I can tell you from years of experience that you're not alone, and you're not as lost as you might feel.
I felt myself blaming them for my situation, even though I knew they weren't the problem.
It was very tempting to give up and just write women off completely. If there were things other guys were doing that could get women interested in them, I could figure out what that was, and then learn it and use it myself. The truth is that once you do figure out the method they're using (and I eventually did), it's simple.
This is popular advice from people who don't understand how to train guys properly.
The most important thing for you to do is to get what I call "Fast Success." I'm not talking about the kind that you were warned about by your Jedi grandfather, who told you to "beware of the easy path." Fast Success is getting you results as quickly as possible so So your first step is to learn the basic skills so you can get those quick victories and teach your "unconscious mind" that you can do this.
I had been learning songs on guitar for years, just by getting the sheet music and copying the notes, so why would this be any different? Lesson 1: Attraction is Not Something You're Taught. You just need to learn from someone that knows how to explain it right. But the funny thing about attraction is that it does work by predictable laws.
First, it's not the same as just learning the "notes" on sheet music. You need someone who's been through all the same things you have. Next, I learned that as much as I'd wanted to MAKE women interested in me, it doesn't work that way. On the other hand, when I learned the right steps to build attraction naturally, I didn't have to do all that needy and insecure stuff I used to - which never worked, anyway. Learn the laws, and you understand the "hidden code..." And then you'll get more and more success.Now, by teasing her first, all of a sudden she feels (from your words and actions) that you might be more challenging. Maybe you’re not just another guy out there looking to get laid tonight.Just find one thing about her that you can tease her about as an introduction.You see, she starts out needing to find a reason to be interested and trust YOU - or she quickly categorizes you as a friend.If you just start talking to her neutrally, she's wondering, "Is he safe? " For all she knows, you're just another dweeb looking to bore her with old Playboy party jokes.OR you could hire one of my trained consultants at 5 per hour over 10 hours to scratch the surface of what I've put in these ebooks and the bonus audio program. I slaved for years to collect all this together, reading books, distilling my newsletters and core techniques, trying everything in the field, to bring you these tips, tactics, and strategies in a professional quality format.