For some inspiration, here’s an example of the flirty things to say to a girl that come from that mindset: Her: “Want to get another drink?
Assume she wants you and is trying to get with you.
See yourself as the perfect 10 out there, and that the best thing that can happen to her is to get your number, go on a date with you, or go home with you.
For example, when talking to a girl you just met you could say something like “you’re totally awesome… The first half of that sentence lets the girl know that you’re interested in her.
But in the second half you throw her through a bit of a loop.
Gradual escalation like this does a couple things that will help you attract women.
First, it gets the girl comfortable being physical with you without her feeling overwhelmed.Instead keep your body movements calm and controlled.Strong body language will help you look and feel more confident, which is going to make your flirting much more effective.So when flirting with a girl, you want to lean back and show her that you’re relaxed and comfortable.Avoid fidgeting and “pecking” (constantly leaning toward and away from the woman your talking to, which makes a guy look like a bird pecking at food).Now, don’t confuse this mindset with thinking you need to be arrogant.