Some guy in his early 20's going up against guys as old as 30's a huge deal.
They had lots of time to establish themselves in the adult world. I didn't have a car, I didn't even have a plant for fuck's sake.
Younger woman, older me, she made me feel old and worn out.
One was 12 years older than me, one was 15 years younger than me, and my wife is the exact same age by nine days. Sexually the older woman, younger me, I would wear her out to the point where she didn't want it anymore.
Girls typically care more about status than guys do.
She's dating me, and I'm 3 years younger, when she had other suitors who were as much as 3 and 4 years older.
I get to be the older person sharing wisdom and guidance when necessary and that's cool.
Life is interesting because I'm essentially one life station ahead of her all the time. When she started her career I had just finally landed my first "real" job. This has simultaneously kept me feeling useful and kept me feeling younger than my years.The only downsides was she was very career oriented whereas I was a High School dropout with a GED just trying to get by.She eventually pushed me to go to college and essentially walked me step by step into going to school.Imagine your brain, the one thing that basically makes you who you are, shit out on you..pass_color_to_child_links a.u-inline.u-margin-left--xs.u-margin-right--sm.u-padding-left--xs.u-padding-right--xs.u-relative.u-absolute.u-absolute--center.u-width--100.u-flex-inline.u-flex-align-self--center.u-flex-justify--between.u-serif-font-main--regular.js-wf-loaded .u-serif-font-main--regular.amp-page .u-serif-font-main--regular.u-border-radius--ellipse.u-hover-bg--black-transparent.web_page .u-hover-bg--black-transparent:hover. The proportions are wider in that context, and that context does make a big difference.