So you can send a GIF with a “Hey” that’s not all-out full of intent.Or Maybe you’ll combine A GIF with something from her Bio…
You may have 100 matches but if none of them responds they are all worthless. The traditional Online Dating Opener: The “Hey” or “Hello” but never “Hi” (I’m kidding, it’s just too ‘eh’ sounding for my taste). For example: See how that prompts you to experience positive emotions (because of the compliment) and then talk about yourself (people love to talk about themselves)? And that’s exactly what she’ll want to see from a first message (most of the times, depends on what type the girl is). You can then do what I like to call “GIF Battles”, basically you both send GIFs and try to make the other one laugh more and break it first. She’ll know that you’re not messing around and skip straight to the sexual talk and date setting etc.
That’s what we’re going to discuss in today’s article, namely: 5 Simple, yet Effective Online Dating Openers for Men That Will Get You Responses. It won’t be a simple “Thank you for the compliment” or “Screw you” (for the critique). Maybe she has a photo of a Halloween costume where she did something awesome. They are more for the bold people as they show more intent but that’s definitely a good thing. Here are my favorite of this type: As you can see you can start with literally any GIF and it’ll be something fresh and interesting for her.
Honestly, we've been using some of these for years and they're all pretty great.
I can see that you’re getting more matches than before in the Online Dating world. With more matches comes more opportunities to meet new and interesting women. The next obstacle is that although getting more matches is great, learning how to convert them into dates is what really matters. And without further ado, let’s begin with the first one: I figured we ought to start with something easy and (more or less) familiar to most. And try to make it an open-ended question, one that she can’t answer with just “yes” or “no”. On that photo, there’s a bookshelf with several books, one of them is black. There’s also a HUGE possibility that she’ll respond with a GIF of her own.
What’s more, you can (and probably should most of the times) add another sentence to this traditional opener. This will mean that she will have something to talk about when she responds. So, what I’ll do sometimes is find a completely normal and boring everyday object in her very targeted and interesting photo or bio and move the highlight there. The black book on the 4 photo is the most beautiful book I’ve ever seen! ALSO, it sets up a potential date where she shows you the black book. Here’s one of my favorite “Hey” GIFs: These are, as mentioned before, also great for conversation starters.
See, everyone can start a conversation with a “Hey” but it doesn’t prompt anything from the other side other than another “Hey” (or an ignore, which you can expect most of the time if you’re starting with a “Hello”). BUT if you combine it with something like a compliment (we’ll go over this later again), or even a critique (yes, you can say negative things about women and still win them over sometimes) you can spice the boring “Hey” into something better. Another angle of approach to this Online Dating Opener is the following thing that I like to occasionally do: Finding something completely random. Also, if she has a great sense of humor she’ll find it very funny and you’re off to a great start already. You can also be a bit bolder and send the ones that have a person sending a kiss.
All these openers have gotten responses for me personally and for many of my clients. If anybody has other openers that work well for them online, post them in the comments.
Anyway, You seem pretty adventurous, so tell me this...
Now all that’s left is to get EVEN MORE matches to put these on to good use.