Breaking the ice is different for women than it is for men.
Men, in order to hurdle your nerves and uncertainties, you must take a certain perspective on rejection and reward. Five predictors of transforming a relationship into a romantic relationship include: proximity, similarities in values, education level, economic status and shared level of attraction (predictive analytics).
If you are looking to get laid, a bar is a great place to go or continue to online date.
If you are looking for a companion, stick to events that occur between the hours of seven in the morning to ten at night. Third, much like cold-calling, you initiate on the spot where you are. Break the ice by asking if the coffee she is drinking is good, ask how to get somewhere, or ask where she got her purse because you are looking for a present for your sister. Use what is going on in the moment to formulate your question.
Then like a game of go-fish you match up your similarities with the other person.
Ladies, this is where you take the lead because chances are you are both interested in sex. But, if you plan to fake it until you make it, you might make it fake. You found someone who likes you and whose company you really enjoy. Know that you will not have all the answers and that is okay.
But, if you are more feminine than masculine, all you have to do to break the ice is look good. The list goes on and it goes something like: long legs; short skirt, boobs of any kind; no bra or push-up bra with a deep v-neck shirt, and extraordinary hygiene!
If you do this, consider the ice broken because the fact is no one can look at you and see your award-winning personality.The first months of dating are all about data collection.It is about discovering similarities and differences.One of those things is enough to scare anyone off of dating or prevent anyone from trying.But, the fact is if you are going to move on with your life and explore what the world has to offer, you have to break the ice.Online dating can be a valuable resource to expand your experience but all the filters you put on your profile still won’t prevent you from going to diner and sitting across from someone that is totally wrong for you.