Don’t wait for a mid-week investment text that guys love to send on Wednesdays to guarantee you’ll be available that weekend.
See step 1 and find a fun activity, and then block out the fact that your phone is silent, especially since you still have plenty of texts from your girls.
Sure, that doesn’t mean you’ll immediately move on, but it does make it easier to cope with the Halloweentown ghost you’re dealing with.
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“Maybe in the next post you can cover what to do/not to do when your ex does contact you. The phone call can go in many directions, but in my experience most often it leads to a rather pleasant conversation. In this post, I am going to give you some simple solutions to cope with these rather normal problems.
Admit it — you’ve never willed a guy into texting you (even though that would be the best).
If you’ve been a tad bit obsessive when you’ve dated before, it’s easy to remember how pointless it all was.
You don’t have to Tinder tirelessly, but you should give other guys a chance until you lock this down, because you might not end up wifed up. Despite what the Maroon 5 song of the same name says, tracking someone’s every move is kind of weird unless you’re a teen wolf.
As much as you want to know where he is at all times, using Facebook/Foursquare/Instagram to do just that is not healthy.
It does, however, mean that you should feel free to shoot him a text if you’re tired of waiting to hear from him and have something you’ve been wanting to say. If you’re getting the vibe that this guy’s getting ready to ghost, it’s time to move on immediately.
It can be hard if you dread dating and actually found someone you like for once, but one of the worst things you can do is cut yourself off completely just because a prospect so much as looks your way.
And you also start to question whether you’re really over her or not.
And when analyzing something, especially when it comes to an (ex) girlfriend, there’s a tendency to go way overboard with it. The reasons are not what important, the important thing is that you can actually feel, way down, that you’re not supposed to be with each other.
Unfortunately, no matter how much you hope a guy will text you, thinking about it won’t guarantee that your phone starts to buzz.