Not everyone is lucky enough to find a date from their own city.Even if you do, ofcourse you first interact online and then meet. For, in these bonds, no real meetings and interactions takes place at the primary level. We bond when we meet someone over a period of time, spend time talking together and being with each other in person. You may be very greatly bonded with someone you have hardly met. It involves not just emotional but also physical, mental and spiritual space.Some people are there just to validate themselves by seeing what kind of people they could attract, and how many.
This very basis of a relationship goes missing online, making it a bad idea altogether.
Away from all these factors, if you still are someone who has found a partner online, with whom you share a bond that is pure and faithful, you are lucky beyond limits.
The great tragedy is even if you do find a compatible partner, internet dating can sometimes just highlight how many potential love interests there are that you’ll never get the chance to meet.
The happy couples we all know are really just making do with the gene pool available to them in a five mile radius.
A crush, an infatuation or attraction is possible, but LOVE is not. How can one fall in love by merely talking too much? Fake accounts, false promise, lies, wrong information are very easily given online and there is no way to authenticate them, thus trapping many online dates.
Hence, trust is essentially a matter of consideration for those looking for a date online.
Thus, making for another reason why dating online is a bad idea. Physical Appearance: Not Enough How can we judge someone we meet online? Just because a person looks good, decent and sophisticated does not really assure it.
So, it is always better to date someone you actually know. Desperacy Isn’t it a desperate way to look out for a partner?
This is often therefore an outcome of desperacy that people get into such relationships, but later on they fall short of emotions, divert from each other and eventually break up.