But I do know this— if you rely on this idea too much, your dating life will get really confusing.Some Christians take a lot of comfort in the idea that God will do the heavy lifting when it comes to dating.
Scripture never says what a husband and wife are or are not allowed to do sexually.
Husbands and wives are instructed, “Do not deprive each other except by mutual consent and for a time (1 Corinthians 7:5a).
The Bible promises he will provide that whenever we ask.
Rely on God's love, wisdom, and sustaining presence while you're dating.
Rather than directing the course of the relationship, God wants the couple to grow and learn how to make a commitment.
Once they've done that, God increases his sustaining presence.
No one should be encouraged or coerced to do something he or she is uncomfortable with or thinks is wrong.
If a husband and wife both agree that they want to try something (e.g., oral sex, different positions, sex toys, etc.), then the Bible does not give any reason why they cannot.
Question: "What is a Christian couple allowed to do in sex?