A flirty text relationship should work the same way a conversation works in real life.
Texts should be back and forth – a message, a reply, and so on.
The first rule of texting is that if you’re doing it to avoid a conversation, don’t text, CALL.
Some guys are a lot more comfortable texting than they are talking to a girl on the phone, and while I understand this, I have to caution you not to do it.
Plus, text topics are a valuable commodity, so use them sparingly! You’re not respecting their schedule If you know he’s got a busy weekend ahead, then don’t text him constantly in an attempt to get his attention. The beginning of a new relationship is no place for negativity.
Stick to inside jokes to create a sense of intimacy – you’ll be surprised how long you can keep a flirty text conversation going just by teasing someone about that time they had too many glasses of wine and accidentally… Don’t tell them how much your boss pissed you off today, or that your bank account is in the toilet.
Here’s a bit of the interview: To purchase the whole interview, notes, and transcripts, just click here.
But read this article first, it’s good and will help you decide if you want the full interview. And naturally a lot of guys totally blow it when it comes to texting gilrs, so I want to give you a few of my text messaging tips for guys.I had a chance to interview the guy who knows the best text flirting tips for guys, Matt Artisan, and we went over some of the points I cover in this post.You can click here to get the full interview, notes, and transcripts on the secrets to texting.If you are sending double the amount of texts they are sending you then you’re trying way too hard.Chances are good that you’re going to tire them out and quickly get labelled a dreaded “pest”.However, an alarming amount of people seem to forget this simple fact and think it’s a good idea to play “hard to get” via text, and then wonder why they stop hearing from their new flame!