Facts are great and all but you don’t want to come off as a know-it-all. If she’s an epicurean, feed into her love of fine foods.
A little backstory as to why you know a certain fact creates a more well-rounded online dating first message. Even if they’re wrong she’ll feel obligated to correct you. Broaching a solid place to grab a scoop of ice cream is a nice segue into asking her out.
More so than learning about her musical interests, this question seeks to find out how that specific song was selected, where it was sung, and why. It’s fun for the recipient because she’s never received a first message like this one before.
Spoilers are the bane of any serial series watcher. Most men that strike up a chat online are at fault for being too agreeable. Every foodie loves to talk about their favorite spots to eat.
Bond over your shared ability to elude spoilers and love for one of the greatest dramas of all time. Playfully and respectfully show her that you disagree with what she’s said about her favorite movie. If she’s a pizza eater, ask her if she’s tried pizza at a particularly happening or obscure place.
It’s the perfect combination of edgy and authenticity. Everyone has seen a Meryl Streep movie and thus it’ll be more or less easy for her to comment. Sure it’s dorky, but if you send this, you’ll just have combined her two most favorite things. Generally I’d say stay away from including the word slut in an online dating first message, but when it’s a The Office quote, an exception can be made.
The beauty of trivia is that it works for any show.
Just pick whichever show she’s interested in and make your own trivia question.
Sure it’s cliché, but you’re bound to run across a woman who lauds The Notebook in her profile. Always steer the conversation towards things she likes.
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Take a note from the greats and think of the first message you write as a rough draft.
Compose yourself before sending it off and ask if you can write an even better online dating first message. She’s already getting inundated with vapid “H factor” words like: hi, hey, hello, hola, etc.
The message works because it’s flirty on a subtle level. You’re playfully poking fun at how god-awful her profile is. If she answers, she’ll be giving you the key to her heart.