While you want to go on a last-minute trip to Thailand, he might prefer to put the money into his pension or spend it on his children. The older you are, the more you know what you like and dislike, and the less likely you are to try new things or act in a spontaneous way.This is not to say that you get boring as you get older, it’s just that responsibilities get in the way.
In our interview, I asked Lisa this question directly and she gave me a simple answer.
Single men in their 60s are looking for a woman who is feminine and is willing to help them feel like a man.
There are actually two things to consider here – his children, and your potential children. As a man gets older, it becomes increasingly likely that he will have fathered some children along the way.
These children will take up his time, whether they live with him or he spends his weekends with them.
If you’re relatively young and single, chances are you have a bit of disposable income.
Yet, while your older man probably earns a decent salary, you should remember that he might have more serious financial commitments than you.
Many women, including myself, spent most of their lives competing with men – at work, in social situations and even at home.
Now, as we reach our 60s, it’s difficult to put our swords down and just relax a bit. Lisa and I also discuss the perception that men only want to date younger women.
For a long weekend away you just need to pack a bag and go, he needs to make sure his children are cared for and square things at work too.
On the plus side, you may find the stability in your life comforting and reassuring.
Most importantly talk everything through; these aren’t issues that are just going to go away.